Post by OnCrime on Jun 5, 2007 20:04:32 GMT -5
The following article/commentary was published in the Charlotte Observer today. Tonya Jameson is right on target!
Punish parent, not assistant principal
By: TONYA JAMESON
If you happen to know the student who spit on an assistant principal at Randolph Middle School last week, please read this column to him.
Someday, years from now, you will have a question for me.
And my answer will be: "Plastic. And please double-bag those bottles of juice. Thanks."
By spitting on an adult whose career mission is to make sure you are properly educated so you can be something, you have set yourself up to be nothing.
You'll probably have no high school diploma, no hope and no future. At best, you will be bagging groceries at age 25. You won't even be a cashier, because you obviously don't care enough about your education to learn how to read or count without using your fingers.
Someone who cares about their future wouldn't spit on a teacher or assistant principal. If you have a beef, your parent is supposed to schedule a conference. Considering your behavior, I'm guessing your parent doesn't care enough about you to attend many conferences.
I know I sound harsh, but I'm tired of teachers and administrators being held responsible for not educating kids who are content to be dummies, and who have parents who don't care about their child's education. Parents must also be held accountable for their kid's actions.
The spitting incident at Randolph last week is indicative of the challenge teachers and school administrators face.
The assistant principal, a nine-year CMS veteran, was suspended with pay after slapping a student who spat in her face, according to an e-mail from Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools. The student had threatened her and become physically aggressive. Administrators called police to restrain the student, who was disciplined according to the district's code of conduct, the e-mail said.
Instead of suspending the assistant principal, the school should ban the student until their parent takes off from work for a week to volunteer at the school.
We keep wringing our hands about students falling behind, low test scores, dropout rates and illiteracy. I'm concerned about those problems, but all of the solutions seem to focus on educators.
The desire and motivation to want an education -- to grow up to be something -- starts at home.
I have an idea that would motivate parents to be more responsible. Let's garnish a portion of the wages from parents whose children are discipline problems. The money could repay the tax dollars that will eventually be spent housing the child in jail or paying their Medicaid bills since they probably won't get a job with health insurance.
Before you softies e-mail me saying the boy is obviously troubled, blah, blah -- save it. If he was molested or abused, my heart goes out. If he went to school hungry every day, that's awful. But acting a fool in school won't improve his home life.
What makes me sad is he is probably gloating because the assistant principal was suspended. But unless she has a history of slapping students, the assistant principal can continue her career.
The student, however, won't have the luxury of ever having a career. The lack of interest in education and respect for authority means he will spend his life bouncing from one job to the next, always scraping to survive.
If he proves me wrong, great.
If not, please use plastic and double-bag my juice.
Link to article: www.charlotte.com/breaking_news/story/148507.html
Punish parent, not assistant principal
By: TONYA JAMESON
If you happen to know the student who spit on an assistant principal at Randolph Middle School last week, please read this column to him.
Someday, years from now, you will have a question for me.
And my answer will be: "Plastic. And please double-bag those bottles of juice. Thanks."
By spitting on an adult whose career mission is to make sure you are properly educated so you can be something, you have set yourself up to be nothing.
You'll probably have no high school diploma, no hope and no future. At best, you will be bagging groceries at age 25. You won't even be a cashier, because you obviously don't care enough about your education to learn how to read or count without using your fingers.
Someone who cares about their future wouldn't spit on a teacher or assistant principal. If you have a beef, your parent is supposed to schedule a conference. Considering your behavior, I'm guessing your parent doesn't care enough about you to attend many conferences.
I know I sound harsh, but I'm tired of teachers and administrators being held responsible for not educating kids who are content to be dummies, and who have parents who don't care about their child's education. Parents must also be held accountable for their kid's actions.
The spitting incident at Randolph last week is indicative of the challenge teachers and school administrators face.
The assistant principal, a nine-year CMS veteran, was suspended with pay after slapping a student who spat in her face, according to an e-mail from Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools. The student had threatened her and become physically aggressive. Administrators called police to restrain the student, who was disciplined according to the district's code of conduct, the e-mail said.
Instead of suspending the assistant principal, the school should ban the student until their parent takes off from work for a week to volunteer at the school.
We keep wringing our hands about students falling behind, low test scores, dropout rates and illiteracy. I'm concerned about those problems, but all of the solutions seem to focus on educators.
The desire and motivation to want an education -- to grow up to be something -- starts at home.
I have an idea that would motivate parents to be more responsible. Let's garnish a portion of the wages from parents whose children are discipline problems. The money could repay the tax dollars that will eventually be spent housing the child in jail or paying their Medicaid bills since they probably won't get a job with health insurance.
Before you softies e-mail me saying the boy is obviously troubled, blah, blah -- save it. If he was molested or abused, my heart goes out. If he went to school hungry every day, that's awful. But acting a fool in school won't improve his home life.
What makes me sad is he is probably gloating because the assistant principal was suspended. But unless she has a history of slapping students, the assistant principal can continue her career.
The student, however, won't have the luxury of ever having a career. The lack of interest in education and respect for authority means he will spend his life bouncing from one job to the next, always scraping to survive.
If he proves me wrong, great.
If not, please use plastic and double-bag my juice.
Link to article: www.charlotte.com/breaking_news/story/148507.html